{"id":1705,"date":"2025-09-18T11:10:58","date_gmt":"2025-09-18T17:10:58","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.duchessmennonite.ca\/?p=1705"},"modified":"2025-11-27T11:34:20","modified_gmt":"2025-11-27T18:34:20","slug":"secretarys-corner-43-sep-18","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.duchessmennonite.ca\/index.php\/2025\/09\/secretarys-corner-43-sep-18\/","title":{"rendered":"Secretary&#8217;s Corner 43 &#8211; Sep 18"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I\u2019m sure by now everyone has realized that *gasp* I pre-wrote most of these Secretary\u2019s Corners for while I\u2019m away. (I know, I know\u2026these aren\u2019t actually the thoughts I\u2019m having at this precise moment\u2026)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I\u2019m sure that has been rather evident, but it is making me think. I\u2019m writing all these things ahead of time: you all have no idea how I\u2019m actually doing. I could be having the best time of my life, I could be having the absolute worst time of my life \u2013 you don\u2019t know!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Life is often like this. You see someone from the outside and make assumptions about what they are feeling. We truly have no clue what is going on in another person\u2019s heart. This is why I always struggle to define the theological views of public figures \u2013 I can\u2019t see their hearts. I have <em>no idea<\/em> what is happening inside them. They could be the most wholehearted Christian, or simply putting up a facade for their fanbase.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I suppose this is an encouragement to be careful to differentiate between what we know and what we have assumed about someone. We can act in ways that are really damaging to someone because we think we know best. Because yes \u2013 we all think we are right. Most of us can admit we aren\u2019t going be right about everything, but until proven wrong, we all believe in ourselves.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">To sum up all these thoughts\u2026 Check in with that person. The one who looks fine, says they\u2019re fine\u2026but are going through really hard times. Are they really fine? Sometimes the smallest encouragement can get you through a long day. We can trust that the small encouragements we seed into other people, while we don\u2019t see the results, have more effect than we know. We only need to plant. Jesus will help it grow.&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I\u2019m sure by now everyone has realized that *gasp* I pre-wrote most of these Secretary\u2019s Corners for while I\u2019m away. (I know, I know\u2026these aren\u2019t actually the thoughts I\u2019m having at this precise moment\u2026) I\u2019m sure that has been rather evident, but it is making me think. I\u2019m writing all\u2026<\/p>\n<p> <a class=\"continue-reading-link\" href=\"http:\/\/www.duchessmennonite.ca\/index.php\/2025\/09\/secretarys-corner-43-sep-18\/\"><span>Continue reading<\/span><i class=\"crycon-right-dir\"><\/i><\/a> <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":1643,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[11],"tags":[13,107,105,106,12,84],"class_list":["post-1705","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-secretarys-corner","tag-blog","tag-check-in","tag-dont-assume","tag-outside","tag-secretary","tag-story"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.duchessmennonite.ca\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1705","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.duchessmennonite.ca\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.duchessmennonite.ca\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.duchessmennonite.ca\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.duchessmennonite.ca\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1705"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"http:\/\/www.duchessmennonite.ca\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1705\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1779,"href":"http:\/\/www.duchessmennonite.ca\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1705\/revisions\/1779"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.duchessmennonite.ca\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/1643"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.duchessmennonite.ca\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1705"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.duchessmennonite.ca\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1705"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.duchessmennonite.ca\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1705"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}